Tonight, it's all about appreciating ourselves more. It's all about knowing our self-worth and valuing what we have. About being contented and believing in ourselves. Having faith that we can do everything we want. Believing that we can be everything we dreamed of being.
That's what we discussed in our Personality Development and Social Relations class. A course which is supposed to teach us everything about developing ourselves. From doing make-up's to proper manners and etiquette to boosting our self-confidence, so that someday, we'll turn out to be a fine young lady.
Well.
One of the main things that I remember was that our instructor keeps on telling us that we have to fill our love tanks first.
Meaning that before we learn to love or appreciate others, we must learn to love ourselves fully. We must appreciate first what we have and be contented about it. Because how could we give love to others when we do not have enough love for ourselves? Thanks to our teacher, I realized that now.. Well, its not that I don't know about these things.. it's just that now, i realized more that it is very important to fill my own love tank. Because as of now, i feel that it isn't that full. There are times when I'm feeling down, or even insecure. There are days when I don't feel good about myself. Bad days as I call it. But in my opinion, it's normal. We can't avoid feeling like that.
Right now, what I need,or have, to learn is how to value myself more. As in fully appreciate 'me'. Because I'm the only one who truly knows who the real me is. And there's no one else who can love me more than I'll be able to love myself. I think.
Ugh. I'm not making any sense...?
part of growing up.or part of life i suppose ;) well ganyan din naman ako nuh.up to now full of insecurities.feeling na parang nanliliit tayo,dba? hmm well all we've got to do is believe in ourselves,right? nko..I hate comparing pero if we look at ourselves, masasabi nating we're so blessed lui, :) we have a simple and loving family, supportive friends, good education, great plans, and stuff, unlike the others na you know, haha madali nasisira buhay..well look on the brighter side and just enjoy life's blessings. That's what i'm practicing right now. :)
ReplyDeleteo dba, ateng ate talga :) more comments to come. basta post lng ng post. very inspiring. :)
ako i value myself.. pero bakit wala pading love life? mwahahahaha!
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